A coil of ship's rope hung on the timber wall at The Hold, Manly

Thursday 1 October 2026 · The Hold, Manly

Date My Mate @ The Hold

Friend-powered dating in Manly.

Mates take the mic and pitch their single friends below decks at Manly's galleon tavern — rum, tacos and a room that's already up for it. No-pressure evening, just a really good night out five minutes from the ferry.

From $49

Ages 20–35-ish

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Pitch spots

Women:
7 left
Men:
7 left

Mingle spots

Women:
Available
Men:
Available

How It Works

1

A mate builds the pitch

They put together a short slide deck about why their single mate is a catch. Humour encouraged.

2

The pitch takes the mic

Mates take the mic and pitch their friends to a room full of people. Two minutes, a big screen and a drink in hand.

3

Everyone mingles

Half the room came along just to watch, drink and mingle — that's where most connections happen. Grab a Mingle Ticket if that's you. No swiping. Just walk up and say "Hi, I liked your pitch."

How it plays out

  1. 6:00pm

    Doors, Wristbands + Welcome Drink

    Grab your DATE MY MATE wristband and a drink to settle in.

  2. 7:00pm

    Pitching Round One

    The first flight of MATEs take the mic.

  3. 7:45pm

    Bar Break

    Refills and quick chats with the crowd.

  4. 8:15pm

    Pitching Round Two

    The second wave of pitches as the room warms up.

  5. 9:00pm

    Time to Mingle

    The Hold is yours. Grab another drink and strike up a conversation.

Tickets

Double pitch

DATE / DATE Pitch Ticket

Two single mates pitch each other — two 2-minute pitches, both of you on the market. Entry for two, first two drinks each.

  • Women 7 left
  • Men 7 left

$99

Single pitch

MATE / DATE Pitch Ticket

One mate pitches their single friend in a 2-minute deck. Entry for two — the mate and the single being pitched, first two drinks.

  • Women 7 left
  • Men 7 left

$89

Here to mingle

MINGLE Ticket

For singles coming along to watch the pitches, drink and mingle. Entry for one, first two drinks, full view of the action.

  • Women available
  • Men available

$49

Creators & media

CREATOR / MEDIA Ticket

For social-media creators and media. We'll review your socials for an engaged following and regular lifestyle content. No follower count to hit.

Invite only

Strictly limited capacity

Candlelit tables and green booth seating along the bar at The Hold, Manly

The Hold, Manly

The Hold is Manly's tavern of high-seas hedonism — an 18th century galleon done as a restaurant and bar, all timber, lantern light and rum, a five-minute walk from the ferry wharf on Sydney Road.

It's a room that already knows how to run a night: live music, a proper kitchen and a crowd who came out to be social. Thursday is their vegan night, so there's 20% off the plant-based menu while you're pitching.

24 Sydney Rd, Manly NSW 2095