A coil of ship's rope hung on the timber wall at The Hold, Manly

Date My Mate @ The Hold

Friend-powered dating in Manly.

Mates take the mic and pitch their single friends below decks at Manly's galleon tavern — rum, tacos and a room that's already up for it. No-pressure evening, just a really good night out five minutes from the ferry.

Thursday 1 October 2026

Ages 20–35-ish

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How It Works

1

A mate builds the pitch

They put together a short slide deck about why their single mate is a catch. Humour encouraged.

2

The mate takes the mic

Mates take the mic and pitch their friends to a room full of people. Two minutes, a big screen and a drink in hand.

3

Everyone mingles

Half the room came along just to watch, drink and mingle — that's where most connections happen. Grab a Mingle Ticket if that's you. No swiping. Just walk up and say "Hi, I liked your pitch."

How it plays out

  1. 6:00pm

    Doors, Wristbands + Welcome Drink

    Grab your DATE MY MATE wristband and a drink to settle in.

  2. 7:00pm

    Pitching Round One

    The first flight of MATEs take the mic.

  3. 7:45pm

    Bar Break

    Refills and quick chats with the crowd.

  4. 8:15pm

    Pitching Round Two

    The second wave of pitches as the room warms up.

  5. 9:00pm

    Time to Mingle

    The Hold is yours. Grab another drink and strike up a conversation.

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Strictly limited capacity

Candlelit tables and green booth seating along the bar at The Hold, Manly

The Hold, Manly

The Hold is Manly's tavern of high-seas hedonism — an 18th century galleon done as a restaurant and bar, all timber, lantern light and rum, a five-minute walk from the ferry wharf on Sydney Road.

It's a room that already knows how to run a night: live music, a proper kitchen and a crowd who came out to be social. Thursday is their vegan night, so there's 20% off the plant-based menu while you're pitching.

24 Sydney Rd, Manly NSW 2095