Date My Mate
A crowd mingling under the disco ball in Beresford Upstairs

Thursday 20 August 2026 · The Beresford Hotel

Date My Mate @ The Beresford

Friend-powered dating in Beresford Upstairs.

Mates pitch their friends inside Beresford Upstairs — a big stage, cutting-edge sound, tiered booths and terrace balconies. No-pressure evening, just an easy night at one of Surry Hills' best-loved pubs.

Ages 25–45-ish

Tickets on sale soon

Strictly limited capacity. Watch this space.

How It Works

1

A mate builds the pitch

They put together a short slide deck about why their single mate is a catch. Humour encouraged.

2

The pitch goes on stage

Mates take the mic in Beresford Upstairs, pitching their friends to a room full of people. Big stage, cutting-edge sound and tiered booths so the whole room can see.

3

Everyone mingles

Half the room came along just to watch, drink and mingle — that's where most connections happen. Grab a Mingle Ticket if that's you. No swiping. Just walk up and say "Hi, I liked your pitch."

How it plays out

  1. 6:00pm

    Doors, Wristbands + Welcome Drink

    Grab your DATE MY MATE wristband and a quiet drink.

  2. 7:00pm

    Pitching Round One

    The first flight of MATEs take the stage.

  3. 7:45pm

    Bar Break — Crowd Buzz

    Refills and quick chats with the crowd.

  4. 8:00pm

    Pitching Round Two

    The second wave of pitches under the lights.

  5. 8:45pm

    Time to Mingle

    Beresford Upstairs is yours. Grab another drink or take it out to the terrace balcony.

  6. 10:30pm

    Date My Mate Closes

    But you can kick on. The bar is open and the night is young!

Tickets

Double pitch

DATE / DATE Pitch Ticket

Two single mates pitch each other — two 2-minute pitches, both of you on the market. Entry for two, first two drinks each.

$99

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Single pitch

MATE / DATE Pitch Ticket

One mate pitches their single friend in a 2-minute deck. Entry for two — the mate and the single being pitched, first two drinks.

$89

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Here to mingle

MINGLE Ticket

For singles coming along to watch the pitches, drink and mingle. Entry for one, first two drinks, full view of the action.

$49

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Creators & media

CREATOR / MEDIA Ticket

For social-media creators and media. We'll review your socials for an engaged following and regular lifestyle content. No follower count to hit.

Invite only

Strictly limited capacity

Beresford Upstairs in full swing — disco balls, lasers and a packed crowd

Beresford Upstairs

Beresford Upstairs was made for a good time. Built as a live music venue, the space features a large stage, a balcony, cutting-edge sound systems, tiered booths for uninterrupted viewing, and both a bar in the main room and a cocktail lounge out back.

Get the party started with cocktails and canapés, mingle with the crowd, and take in the atmosphere from one of the terrace balconies — the perfect backdrop for a night of friend-powered dating.

354 Bourke Street, Surry Hills NSW 2010